Losing the taboo attraction
Sympathy for the bother and worry of keeping your activities secret. I know what you mean as do my playmates over years.
Perhaps this may soften the blow. If part of the lifestyle's attraction for you is the taboo attached to black on white sex, which may be part for you or not, having the lifestyle generally accepted would mean that "kick" from doing the taboo would be gone.
So, maybe you have to be careful what you ask!
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