Took me about 6-7 years to persuade my wife, and that doesn't seem an unusual period from what I've read. Biggest issues were convincing her I didn't want to fuck other women, and that I'd still love her if she went with another guy. We then watched a lot of interracial porn, and talked about her being with a black guy when we made love - after some years she sort of connected orgasms with fantasies of well hung black men as I fucked her. To move it from fantasy to reality was tough, but I simply told her that it was very important for me, and that I needed it desperately. When she finally agreed to give it one try, we went on the web, found a guy on a swinging site and only 3-4 days later we were in an hotel room as a black guy fucked her in front of me. After he left I cuddled her, made love to her and told her how much I loved her. Took me all those years to get her to open her legs for another guy, and now she does it without even batting an eyelid - overcome her fears, and you're well on the way - good luck!
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