You could always say that you changed your mind about being done having kids. My husband had his vasectomy done 20 years ago and swore he would not have any more kids. He has finally decided that he would be okay with another one. We can't afford a reversal so we have to go a different route. You could say she went to Florida for the procedure and only said it was for work in case the procedure didn't work. This explanation allows for you to be happy with your upcoming parenthood while also explaining your desire for privacy in the process in case it didn't work. You wouldn't have to listen to a lot of I'm sorry it didn't work comments. It also protects her reputation as a faithful wife.
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