Did it ever occur to any of you that maybe the black woman secretly doesn't feel confident enough to think that a white guy would be interested in her. Did you smile and make eye contact with her? Does she think that maybe you just want to experiment and cross her off your bucket list. Don't assume that all black women must be like the closed minded few that you've come in contact with. That's like saying all white men are serial killers or all black men are thugs. Maybe put yourself in the school of a little black girl growing up being shown images of Barbie as a standard of beauty which is completely unobtainable by her. You all claim to be so open minded but you are quick to judge and generalize.
