Wife and BBC
Its important to talk to her and let her know that you love her or you wouldn't even suggest such a thing ... Give her time to come around, don't push but mention it often and see what happens ... This can take some time, I know it did with my wife but she finally consented and the rest is history ... Invite some Black Friends over for a poker game or to watch a football game so she can get comfortable around them, then after they leave mention it somemore ... It takes time and patients but it can and usually will pay off big time ... If she likes it, you might be sorry you talked her into it in the first place ... Don't be surprised if she wants to be alone with her Stud from time to time so they can get it on without you being there ... Set the ground rules and adhere to them to the letter and make her do the same and it can work for both of you ...
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