[rockhardpapi]

You are exactly right my man. I have had the same problem. Too many black women play games or have a hidden agenda when it comes to us. I just don't have that problem with white women. They seem to be more genuine and honest about what they want and are not wrapped around what kind of job you have or what you can buy them or do for them outside the bedroom. I was married to a black woman and it was the worst experience you could imagine. There was a time when I would only date black women, now I have no interest in them at all. They play too many games, have hidden agendas and expectations of entittlements that make you question their sanity. My X was not my 1st bad experience, I had a GF I wanted to marry 18 years prior and for the 1st year we were together, she lied about who she was and what she wanted. It all came out eventually, and she was not a woman I would want to marry or even date, drama and hidden agendas drove me away from her with a quickness and she then pursued me for the next year or two. Her thing was "I got the man I want but I am going to change him." Change me into what? I have never had the thought of changing anyone, you are who you are. Shit...she must of liked me , she was the one that started talking about marriage but after we are married, "there are going to be some changes." Nuts! Those are the same women sitting around without a husband or boyfriend, lonely and mad when they see you out with a white girl. Hell...the white girl is not trying to change you or has some hidden agenda with a list of entittlements that a princess would garner. The often taboo love or lust they have for us is stronger than the stares and scorn of an angry black woman with a misguided sense of control and domination of a black man for their benefit. Fuck that! Peace.