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Originally Posted by coco140
Hi all i was wondering about bareback sex. I've been reading a lot of people's intrests on this subject and found that black men don't like to use condoms, i find myself looking and wanting more and more to have sex with black men, i never use condoms with my hubby and dont like the feeling of it but if i do (which i want to) have sex with a black man should i insist on having him wear a condom? And if i go bareback how do i know he is clean. I've come very close a few times with black men i meet but have pulled back for some reason or another.
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I myself have always gone bareback because I enjoy the feeling and want to feel it when they cum inside of me but this is a very good question sweetie. As others have suggested, either have sex with a close friend that you trust, have them get tested, or have them wear a condom if your not sure about them being clean. I have taken some big risks before in my sex life and just got lucky that I didn't and have never caught anything. Good luck with your first, you'll love it, but if you don't feel right about it, don't do it. Kisses!