Be absolutely certain you want it to get real. Often the real thing for one is more of a shock than a pleasure. Lots of guys have found it hard to take especially if the woman enjoys it as much as they seem to. When you find out what she has been doing is even worse at first, after a while you get obsessed with IR like most of the men here including me. I am not with her but I still get very aroused by what she did and the things I get through friends. I got into it because of her activity not out of fantasy. Now it is all fantasy for me aroused by thinking of what she did, looking at IR and of pics of her and hearing about her exploits. I have spoken to many guys who pushed it hard and when it happened they wished it hadn't and regretted letting fantasy become reality.
I am not saying don't do it I am saying be very sure it is what you really want.
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