Nope.
I'm actually qualified to answer this because my black friend's swear I'm half black.
Meaning, I'll give you a complete answer using half the space I normally use to post my POV.
Men hit on you because we were put on this earth to seed women. Men hit on you to expose your kinks, your flaws, to challenge their misunderstanding of your womanhood.
If your husband agrees to share you with the homies in the hood it's all good. If you have an open marriage, it's your right.
Let;s just assume that even if you were living in a predominantly black community and there was one Mexican who acted like his dick were the biggest thing in town, he'd hit on you too.
He's a male. Likely, he'd offer to do your landscaping first.
Don't rely on men to validate you. You are a woman, you are supposed to start wars, compete with all the other queen bees for the studliest workforce.
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