I'm a girl but a white boyfriend (just friends) helped me with list. I used to date only white men but then became attracted to a black man at work and have been dating black men since then. I've always been attracted to dominate men but lately I seem to be attracting not so dominate men and boyfriend suggested posting the list and seeing what dominate men thought. It's probalby already helped because boyfriend kept telling me to try using "Master" (he's given me great advice in past) so glad I didn't from what you wrote - especially because I have to be super careful because of my job (I can't even explain why).