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Originally Posted by jessicasubcd
As a real life submissive cuckold I think you are dreaming if you think you can do this without talking about your feelings and desires. You have to be a bit bold. Watch interracial porn together. Suck her pussy its the only thing you have to offer anymore obviously. Get her a black dildo. Go to a swingers meet. Get her to open an account here. Do something. Hoping and wishing silently while driving to the big city will not likely get you very far.
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Thanks for the advice. I took a few steps forward yesterday. I brought up the fact that with our son graduating next month, we will soon have an empty nest and asked what she thought that was going to mean for our relationship.
She responded, rather bluntly, that it means she will have some freedom to go outside our marriage to find sex if i'm still not able to perform. I told her that I am working on my weight and making some progress, but may not be ready in the next few months. I asked her if that would make a difference in her mind. She told me that she loves me, but she's not attracted to me the way I am and she wants me to support her needs.
I told her I would and that maybe we should take a trip to Chicago in early June. She thought that sounded like a good place to start.
So I think that sounds like the open door I need. Any one interested in meeting us/her?