everyone has thier own reasons i also have been with my wife more than twenty years ,..our intent wasn't to go "interracial" only to find another couple to swing/swap with.,.we just happened to find this in a black couple. allowing ALL of us to explore our sexuality and experiance our fantasies .
none of us view each other as superior .., only as alternative .
and yes it has strengthened the bond between my wife and myself,..but it also developed bonds between us and our "lovers".,.it's not the type of relationship for everyone.,..like anything else it take work and commitment ,honesty is always required if you can't be forth coming and honest with your partner.,.then there's no point persueing ANY relations interracial or otherwise.
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