[mightymemnon]

I've found that "nice" is too relative a word to describe a man's approach to a woman. Being a gentleman with a sense of humor but with a No BS approach confidence and straight forwardness is appreciated more. Nice is too general of a term and misleading. It's generally used to characterize something with acceptable aspects but is not compelling or desirable.

I believe when a woman or couple on this site meet a black male they expect a gentleMAN. And I'm not referring to just a BBC. Interesting and stimulating conversation, mutual respect, courtesy in the "palor" and BLACK STEEL in a velvet glove in the sack. I have no doubt that the majority of women on this site are familar with "NICE" guys they wouldn't want to fuck. There isn't much passion or chemistry in "nice". The "nice" approach fails to convey a definite and unclouded appreciation of the female's sensuality and desirability.