Are you the jealous type, can you cope with the visual of your wife underneath another man, can you cope with the sight and sounds of her cumming on his cock, can you cope with him (perhaps) being bigger or better than you, can you cope with the fact that he may leave a load of cum inside her which will be there for a while and cannot be removed?
...and can you do all that without becoming an asshole or thinking any less of her?
If the answer to those questions is "yes" then you're ready, if you cannot answer with absolute conviction then your answer is "no".
My experience was I loved her MORE and wanted her MORE as a result... that's pretty common.
The point of my questions is... this is about sex... ONLY sex... enjoying her body and your sexual relationship. She NEEDS to know you will still love her afterwards and so do you. Assuming you own her heart... enjoy her sexuality to the full; safe in that knowledge. You're a long time dead...
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