Well, if you personally like it, but you're trying to figure out why you like it, as if it's a problem to your well being, then you may need to seek professional help; if you just like it in general, then thats you're prerogative, and your psyche.
For me, negativity isnt allowed where I'm having sex, and the word "nigger" is definitely negative. I wouldn't allow an African women to call me that during sex, let alone a white women, or any other women for that matter. The other thing is, I've never been in need of pussy from white women (or any other women) that bad that I would allow them to make me feel uncomfortable, so they can feel comfortable. My rule is that if you're ancestors aren't African, then dont use the word.
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