I guess you're a little different from me in that you have discussed it and had some input rather than been 'surprised' like I was. I'd still think carefully about how it will affect your relationship with your husband though. It affected mine badly and we're now divorced. Having said that - you have agreed to it so it will hopefully be different for you. And him (after all he may get jealous or think differently towards you).
Anyway I hope it works out of you. My silver lining is that since being divorced over 2 years ago I've not slept with another white man lol
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