# 1 Respect her privacy
#2 Don't do anything that would risk problems for the girls, either
It obviously could be more serious than this but it reminds me of a conversation with a girl when I was in college about how she got a a lot of grief the day before at church because someone told just enough people that he saw her at a bar. My first question was, "Didn't anybody ask him how he saw you there if he wasn't?' " Apparently they were too busy enjoying the gossip to notice that they were passing up another victim. People . . . . .
