As much as you probably would like to share and maybe even share; what if YOU are precisely the type of person she wouldn't want to know? What if she enjoys the secrecy and fantasy of it and the picture was posted without her knowledge?
I have seen people I work with on another swinger;s site and am glad that I kept my name and picture off of it, (and somewhat glad they didn't because I would have contacted them otherwise), because it woul djust be ENTIRELY too awkward.
Might be just me, but I don't socialize much with co-workers. What if the people I like at work turned out to people I didn't like outside of work? A friend told me years ago that I keep my circles separate. I didn't realize it until that moment. Now it's a conscious choice. Unlike the girl who was crying on the phone at work theother night about having said/done something on Facebook that cost her friends; trouble at work doesn't affect me at home and vice versa.
Yes, telling her could be fantastic for both of you> And it could be a painful and abrupt end.
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