First of all, gay men wouldn't be interested in this type of scenario. As for bi men, you mean you said no to those who pretended they weren't bi. You're just fooling yourself if you really think you have the cards stacked in your favor. I love BB, but I don't fool myself. Good luck, though. You'll need it.
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Originally Posted by Newcpl2
I read all this talk of 'testing' and certificates and while it makes sense if you believe your 'swing' partner is being monogamous... it's kinda BS because it's only as good as his last test... who the hell did he fuck last nigh tho???
Our rule was simpler... no gay men, bi men, drug users, illiterate, inarticulate or poorly educated... Horrible profiling but kinda stacks the odds in your favor to start with... After that it was a long and honest discussion about attitudes and experience... then I deferred to her female intuition, posing the simple question "if you met and dated this guy as a single woman, would you fuck him?"
If the answer to that was "no" then we made a polite exit... I never wanted her to fuck a man she didn't genuinely like - bareback or not. I loved my wife!
You have to be pragmatic about things - after all it's actually more dangerous driving to the damned date....
We never had a problem.
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