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Originally Posted by notrub42
Yes, the idea of being tied, naked, blindfold, helpless - and awaiting the next blow across an already-sore bottom is appealing! The sudden crack of pain as the cane hits me...then waiting for the next...
Of course, a trusted partner and a 'safe' word are essential.
Afterwards, as I contemplate the red welts across my bottom, I feel very feminine!
I surrendered myself, gave myself to him....
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But IF you have a trusted partner wouldn't the safe word become less essential?
To me if you trust someone enough to play without the safe word then you have come much closer to truly surrending yourself. All of which makes D/s play more interesting/exciting in my opinion.