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Old 09-30-2012, 05:09 PM
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Originally Posted by Mustang Alley View Post
Just wondering why you're still looking when you have 3 BBC right there with the offers. Is their inbox full too?
Well Alley, assuming this is a legitimate question and not a trolling attempt, there are several reasons. Actually it turns out the inbox thing wasn't so important as the gentleman in question was actually already in communication with us.

Our main issue is often logistics. She likes to establish a friendship where she can meet up with a guy frequently. Not sure how familiar you are with Houston, but it is a very spread out city. Two people can both live in the Houston area, and still be an hours drive away. So as nice as someone might seem, they may just be a little too far away to be what we are looking for. Also we have somewhat difficult schedules that make weekends and other convenient times for most people not as easy for us.

Really, just because a BBC (which hopefully is attached to a real person and not just somehow able to get on the internet by itself) writes a post in forum, does not mean that chemistry is going to happen just because the numbers line up. We spent a year meeting up with various guys before she had her first experience. Now that she has done it and loved it, and is not so gut wrenchingly nervous about things, we hope it will be a little easier to find a good guy. But that doesn't mean the first person we talk to online is going to be the right guy.

This post might strip some of the fun out of the thread, but hey we are real people in a real situation and thats not as simple as fantasy. You have anything else you want to know, ask away.
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