During years past I let my guard down with differant men and let them take candid photo's and a few vid's of myself and them thinking that they would remain in their private collections. I had this delusion for a long long time as one relationship would die and I went to another, and another.
Then one night I was on some site and stumbled upon a entire set of pic's of me with one of my long past lovers. It kinda shocked me to realize that this former lover had posted our personal photo's on line, fully exposing me in every way, yet they had taken the time to blur out their faces and tat's.
Since that time I occasionaly see a pic or two of me on differant sites, I have even seen my face posted on this site several times.
When I first began finding pic's of my past I tried to get them blocked or deleted but the truth is that once they have been posted, just once, they cannot ever be deleted. A site admin explained it like this, the moment it is posted it may be downloaded by 1,10, 100, 1000 differant people who instantly repost it on one or more other sites where the same thing happens all over. The admin said that he would delete the pic's from his site but could not guarantee that they wouldn't be reposted within minutes or days again because they had no way of verification.
So, I have kinda given up and even get a chuckle from time to time when I see some post of me from 15 years ago being claimed by some guy who says that he is posting pic's of some chick he just picked up in a bar and hit last week, etc
I guess the point here is girls, if you let a guy click a pic, any guy, expect to see it posted on some site or some forum someday.
Make ur man put down the cam or phone before you drop your top or get down to buisness unless you are willing to confront your past for ever on the web.
Nikki
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