Lot to think about
There is a lot to think about before you go forward. That being said I voted for you to say it's a fantasy. You brought up a couple of points that you two need to address. First is that you both have now expressed a desire to do it. Thats cool but you also say you are afraid he wont be able to satisfy you after being with a black man. Well all of us aren't these 12" Mandingo dick having guys. if you are truly worried find a brotha that is similar in size to your husband and try that out first and if you both are good with it work your way up the scale. Now lastly you ask if you should do it and risk your love life. The answer to that can really only come from the two of you sitting down and talking this out. If your marriage is sound and this is something the two of you want to try you should be ok. This site and many others are a prime example of couples of have done it and like it. True the other side is not to many people post the negative affects. Good luck to you two and please update us on how it goes or don't go.
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