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Originally Posted by Mustang Alley
Ahhh its the ole "knock up" my wife white man fantasty... 
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Yup, and they never quite follow all the way through the fantasy...
It's not about "getting knocked up" - to do so you have to have sex, which very often is fun.
It's also not really about "being pregnant" - yes there are a lot of downsides, but quite a few guys seem to get really turned on (especially once you show), and sex is still great.
There is that "giving birth" part - which really is a pain in the ass.
BUT, the real issue is - you then have a little kiddo to take care of. Children need tons of attenttion, care, love, TIME. Not to forget in this day and age in the western world, they're not cheap either, kids cost money.
If the "fantasy" is about having sex, great enjoy yourselves. But bringing a little life into this world should not be taken so easily (OK, there are times when it just happens, and you have to learn to make the best out of it).
Kids are humans too, they're not some abstract thing or toys.