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Originally Posted by alyna
If she doesn't want it, why force the issue?
If she's happy with what she has, why can't you be happy about that?
If she wants to be a faithful wife, why is that considered a bad thing?
If it truly is "about her" then just let her make her own decisions, she doesn't want it? End of story!
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1.If she doesn't want it, why force the issue?
I would never force anything on her. I'm open with her and myself about all of this. Is that a bad thing?
2.If she's happy with what she has, why can't you be happy about that?
I am and always will be happy with her. She is amazing.
3.If she wants to be a faithful wife, why is that considered a bad thing?
It's not a breach of faithfulness with my consent. If she ultimately sides against, it's a good thing. If she goes for it, it's a good thing. There are no bad things between my wife and I.
4.If it truly is "about her" then just let her make her own decisions, she doesn't want it? End of story!
My feelings exactly. Of course. I haven't presented her with a realistic chance yet. If I REALLY offer it to her, I hope she goes with my decision on the matter naturally.