Thats ridiculous caliblk. There are tons of people, probably a majority, enjoying fetishes and lifestyles that they dont allow the public to know about. And they are having a wonderful time. With my wife and I, if someone is interested we give our cell numbers and exchange regular face pics that no one on earth could look at and say "oh they are on a swinger site." We have done this long enoigh to know how to let the other person know we are real. If you post a pic on here someone could pull the site up and show others you are on it.
Hell, my wife had an account on this site WITH pics and a racist black guy got in here, who I still tell her was a juvenile, and at first was extremely sexist towards her and then he accused her of being a man. He is lucky I have no idea where he is. But that was done even with pics posted. So we decided to just let me be on here and I just think its best we continue meeting people the way we were. Again, my wife, by letting the guys know she was real the way we handle it, has now been chatting and been with some very nice guys from the site.
To be honest we are on other swinger sites and this is not a problem on them. This is the only site where white and black guys are pretending to be someone they are not.
But to respond to caliblk honestly, the lifextyle suits us fine. We love it. We just dont advertise our pics on sites. Its just our preference and it has worked fine for us. Even if people posted pics it doesnt prove its really them. Im like all of you sick of black and white guy fakes, but I dont see any real way to stop them. Some posts could be blocked by the admins of the site. That might help.
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