In reality, swingers don't want anyone to know they are swingers, no matter if they are having fun with black or white or Asian or whoever. It's just something they prefer to enjoy together as a married couple and don't want the world to know. And most swingers are happily married couples, very much in love, and aren't shallow and only worry about the others money. While there are shallow people out there in all walks of life the vast majority of women out there are not bad people and only worried about their husband providing for them. Most women nowadays have jobs and are fully capable of supporting themselves.
Single women in this day and time,if their concern is romance and love, aren't thinking about who likes it if they are dating someone they love. White women are with black guys everywhere and black women are with white guys as well. Women are very capable of making their own decisions and are very independent and proud.
So to answer the question, most people like to keep their sexual affairs private. It isn't because of embarrassment of who they are with. It's just something most everyone prefers.
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