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Originally Posted by hooked100

It is a big step and you need to think very carefully before you act. Like others have said here the key is to constantly talk with your hubby all the time and every step of the way.

My hubby had the fantasy of seeing me with a black man for years before we acted on it. I had to be very sure that this was what he really wanted and what I wanted too.

Like you, I had no sexual experience before being married and so there was a curiosity about what it would be like with someone else. My hubby had had gfs before and had a better idea of what he liked/ wanted sexually.

Eventually we went into the lifestyle, but I was very careful initially that we played it along the lines of his fantasy. Once I had been with a couple of bulls I was able to exert more of my fantasy/ requirements into proceedings.

But be warned once you have tried cuckolding it does change the dynamics of the relationship. In our case it has had a very positive effect and I genuinely feel that we are closer, but we had a very strong marriage in the first place.

Also don't fool yourself or let hubby fool himself that you can stop anytime - it is addictive!

Having said all that, for me, it was/ is the best thing that I could have done. I think that I would have always regretted not exploring that side of my sexuality and maybe the frustration might have damaged my marriage at some point in the future.

As regards size - it just makes it different, personally I don't really compare as each man has his own 'style' when making love. The big ones can be a bit uncomfortable at first but they are a unique experience that shouldn't be missed.

xxHelen

Very good advice. thank you.