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Old 02-24-2010, 09:37 PM
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Originally Posted by jaycuck View Post
Have you ever seen the Spike Lee film "Summer of Sam"? The boyfriend talks his girl into swinging and then goes crazy with jealousy. That is a risk. It is also a risk that you will lose respect for a husband that allows himself to be belittled by having someone else fuck his wife.

Having said that it could be an enhancing experience for both of you. I would suggest that if you do it, it is with someone who lives far away, doesn't know your real name and doesn't know where you live. That might help prevent jealousy after the fact. I would also suggest that your husband stays with you, and maybe hold his hand, during the act. That too might help.

Do you have a strong, trusting marriage?
Thank you. Yes our marriage is very strong. What you are suggesting is what we are thinking of doing. On this site and others, there are many black men from all over the country that are offering to come to where we are and to do it. They know it is only for the sex and nothing more. We are still deciding. I think it could be very fun if it makes my husband happy. He seems to want me to do it. I get wet thinking of it. Anyway, thanks again.
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