[Bethmwf]

Thanks everyone for sharing, this thread has been helpful for me. I have only been with my husband, but have had a long time attraction to strong black men.

As I move forward to act on this, the question here is a paramount one. I would prefer natural, but STD is a concern as well a pregnancy since my husband has had a vasectomy and I am not on any birth control.

My husband is supportive and encouraging me to go for it. As several others have mentioned here there is a thrill in the risk of pregnancy that puts an added level of intensity.