[fxvalleycpl]

Yes the breaking the vows thing can be tough. Here is some input....thee is a quote in the bible that says "your marriage cannot be defiled" which means what a man and a woman do together with consent is between both of you. A lot of characters in the bible had multiple lovers and somewhat of a paradox. The only reason swinging (in my opinion) wasn't mentioned by any teacher or philosopher including Jesus was that it didn't exist openly. Men and women were getting it on the side and they both knew about it. The 6th and 9th commandment don't say there is anything wrong with consesual sex with multiple partners IF BOTH ARE IN AGREEMENT. I think the cheating aspect if you follow judeao- christian beliefs cannot be justified but this isn't cheating. Its a whole different dynamic.