I prefer to be eaten...but I don't care about an aggressive, dig in kind of approach... I like when you barely flick your tongue all around the area...thighs, outer lips...then occasionally dip into my wet slit, flick my clit, bite a little, back off...then finger me some...I respond to teasing more than anything...you can finish me off aggressively with mouth and fingers, but if you tease me a while first, then the finish won't take long.
