We being a bit older than most here and also being from a small (back then) coastal town. There were very few black families around. We didn't have racial barriers that i knew of. But dating was not openly done. It was during a sleep over for my 18th B-day my girlfriends all gathered at my older sisters house. A girl friends older brother and friend of my sister dropped her off. He hung out for a bit. We had poloroid camera then and were taking pictures of everything including us trying to look sexing in our pajama's. At some point during the night curiousity, black berry brandy, and truth or dare taken into account i found myself laying on my sisters bed and a 25 year old black mans penis no BBC making me feel like a virgin again.. Afterwards we didn't talk about it much in public. I never told any future boy friends or even my husband about it. Some 25 years later my husband "talked" me into trying a black man. i haven't looked back since. I guess to answer your question more planly I have two children by black lovers, You can't hide that..
