Dirty Dreams
This really seems to work! I'm pretty much a wimp and my wife Sherry controls when we have sex. Out of frustration I started a few years ago to feel her up when she was sleeping. I'm pretty good now at knowing her breathing patterns when she is in a receptive sleep stage. I've been able to act out some pretty perverted things with her while she sleeps. The usual set up is for Sherry to be asleep on her side with me spooning her. I will start rythmically humping her to her breathing while repeating a phrase like "You're a dirty girl." or "Where do you want that big ... black ... cock?" The cadence goes along with her breathing. I know things are going well when she begins to vocalize. Sometimes it will be a little snoring sound or a soft moan or grunt. There usually is no penetration. I did manage to get a finger up her ass one time while I repeated the question "More? You want more big ... black ... dick in your ass?" as she responded and I worked my finger further and further up her butt. Did this about 5 minutes before she began to breath heavier and started to awake.
About a year ago I made a list of things I wanted to try getting Sherry turned on to during these sessions. (Here are a few of the dirtier ones.)
Get her to think about getting fucked by another man. (I've used phase for her to visualize being with a big strong black guy.)
Taking black dick in the butt.
Licking a guys balls and getting aroused by the smell of a guys crotch. And getting turned on thinking about tonguing a black guys ass.(I know this is a bit perverted but I would run my finger between my butt cheeks and hold it under her nose as I used this scenario.)
Introduce a trigger that will work when she is awake.
By the way in the years that I've been doing this Sherry has never mentioned anything about it in the morning which is pretty amazing since some times I'm sure she's caught me and there will be hell to pay in the morning. At the most in the morning she would tell me she had a dirty dream last night.
The results of all this conditioning has been pretty amazing too. Sherry hasn't fucked another guy yet but I've caught her eyeing a couple of black guys that have walked past. She still won't do anal with me. The best I've been able to manage is for her to bend over and present herself for me to take doggy. She has consistently responded to a trigger phase and believe it or not here is a nasty thing I've been able to get this once fem dominant woman living with a limp-dicked husband to do.
She gets turned on when I talk dirty to her during sex.
Sherry consistently lets me mount her face like a slut and hump her mouth. And this has led to something that I thought she would never do. Last night I said the trigger while I was mounting her face. I slid up a bit for her to lick my balls and like many times before lowered myself to see how she would respond. Sherry quite un-expectantly buried her face between my ass cheeks and tongued me! Damn!
Getting Sherry to fuck another guy, even though I think it is on her mind, still hasn't happened yet. Any suggestions on how to continue the conditioning or to capitalize on it?
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