I don't understand a woman (or a man) reluctant to kiss. If you can have sex with a stranger, what's the point in refusing to kiss. If a woman can take a guy's cock in her mouth giving him a blowjob (most women are prepared to do this) and a guy is prepared to lick pussy (and who doesn't), then kissing abstinence doesn't make sense.
It's lovely to swap fluids while kissing and to play with the partner's tongue in your mouth. I think kissing is an integral part of fucking.
