I have accepted friend requests from a few in the past that blew my inbox UP... I speak for no one else but myself, but I usually check in here every few days while at work just to see what's up. I've been "called out" on not immediately replying to a message and frankly it pretty much sealed the deal. I've had a couple of meet ups from friendships started here, but I for one don't get that enthused about some of the garbage that shows up in messages. I've gotten hate mail from white men as well (here) swearing they can CONVERT me. If I want to send you pics ~ I will. If I want to get in touch ~ I will. If I miss a message, does that make me a closet gay fake homosexual man??? I'm sure such oddities exist here, but maybe, just sometimes, we're either not interested or simply haven't replied yet
