I agree! I'd never say anything that would be disrespectful of one of my black lovers. I hate people who use that word and I'd call anyone out who'd say it in my presence. I've learned how sensitive that black men can be over the years and they should be lifted up and worshiped like the powerful men they are and not disrespected by anyone, especially a white girl he's trusted with his masculinity and sexuality. I feel honored to be receiving the love of my men. That's a word designed to be degrading and undermines the true power and sexual prowess of the men our white forefathers tried so desperately to rise above. These men were rightly concerned of the strengths and sexual magnetism of black men and did everything they could including the invention of derogatory words such as this to convince the world of black inferiority when the reality is that black men are and always have been superior to whites from the beginning of mankind. That word, disgusting and horrific as it is, should not be used to degrade whether for sex or not. I'll not use it.
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