[whtgrlangel]

Of course, who could understand something as deeply as another person who shares your experience? That is an obvious statement but also misleading. Black women do understand where black people come from because they are black but they don't necessarily understand where black men are coming from because they are not men. Their experience, no matter how black, is not your experience. And, to some extent, they compare what black men are doing with what white men are doing and their expectations are artificially set to judge you by those arbitrary standards.

I don't necessarily agree that white men have subjugated us white girls to sex slaves because of money because white women in this country are far out-performing white men in this day and age and we are far better educated so I believe we will turn a corner in a few decades when white men will no longer dominate this country. Not only that, you seem to think that we give up the pussy so easily because men have money not realizing that I might actually be using men for my own sexual pleasure. If you think that women don't understand the power of their pussy then you are sorely misinformed.

The jist of my rant was that women, black and white, who love black men should do their best to lift their men up and encourage them without the fear or doubt that generations of bigotry has spawned. The confidence of black culture has been undermined by white culture and it is a significant reason why black women are so hard on black men. Black women don't understand how hard it is to be a black man. They just see other men and set their expectations on what other men are doing.

I am not dogging black women at all. I love black women like I love black men. I love the culture. But I am not black. I don't know what it is to be black but I can observe and learn and share what I see for the benefit of black people. I am not just a waste can for black cum, I do have a mind and love for all black people. I just see more and more that black men are marrying white girls and dating white girls and leaving black girls behind. I love that black men are attracted to me because I am attracted to them too but don't you think that there is a growing epidemic of black men who are forgetting about black girls?

I am only reiterating what I hear from dozens and dozens of black men who have told me this stuff for decades. I just want to encourage black women out there to lift up their men and I want black men out there to go home and help your women understand what it is to be you. You have no idea what you can accomplish if you don't allow yourself to both dream big and execute. Don't stick your toe in the water, go get whatever it is you want and bring it home. That's all I am saying.