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Originally Posted by dashinglad2010
These corn flake-types are the parent cause to the frustrating efforts people go through to make a simple sex engagement happen. It causes a lot of uneasy feelings among the parties involved. Sometimes, people are totally discouraged and call it an end to the lifestyle because they think it's all a big joke. Although sexual engagements do happen a lot, one would believe that you would strike out more than you would hit grand slams if they didn't believe this lifestyle was more than the lame-ass professional porn you see on the web.
You're either the real deal or you're a Corn Flake? Which is it?
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That's word my brutha! And it's precisely why I'm not really active at all in the "lifestyle" and have not been so for many, many years now. It's just not worth the effort you need to expend in order to find somebody who is "for real". Forget the chat rooms, forget the cams, and forget the pictures and ALL that jazz. You for real? Then give me your phone number and be close enough to meet IN PERSON . . . FACE-TO-FACE . . . UP CLOSE AND PERSONAL . . . for a no-obligations first-time meet and greet . . . or just plain forget it! And don't for a minute think that you're "for real" because you're willing to show your face (or more) on cam. Sure, that can prove whether you're male or female. BUT, If you're not getting together and fucking, then you ARE NOT for real! You're just somebody (an exhibitionist maybe) who likes to communicate by cam. REAL swingers are MEETING and FUCKING! Now, I calls 'um "flakes" . . . but "corn flakes" works too
Whatever you want to call 'um, they don't waste one nanosecond of my time anymore!