[Mustang Alley]

"There's plenty of people here who can vouch for me" well not one has stepped up as of yet. Just saying <-- "emoticon".

Yea that's it. I want everyone here to be fake. I want to be the only real woman on this whole site. That way I can keep all the dick for myself. YOU BUSTED ME!!! Guess that's why I have made so many FEMALE friends on site. Some so close we call each other sisters.. So you can shove that theory up your ass. Now if you have to move your balls to the left so you can shove it up your ass that remains to be known.

Oh and FYI the few FEW times that I've been wrong Ive always come back to the board and announced that I was wrong and that the person is totally real. So ya wanna prove me wrong? Honestly I'll be shocked if you actually get on cam. Guess time will tell. FYI I Skype with so many people all over the world so being "out of the county" isn't an issue.

anti blk female??. Now you really need to read your post again. Read your first post then read mine.. My post was correct then as it is now. That first post had strong undertones. We've seen it time and time again on here.

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Originally Posted by whtgrlangel

It's funny to me, maybe ironic is a better word, that black women these days prefer a black man who is light skinned and most white girls including yours truly prefer black men who are very dark.

Most of my black boyfriends over the years have complained to me about their black wives or girlfriends about being too hard on them, too demanding, too high of expectations but not willing to support them in their goals and aspirations. I don't think that black women are bad for black men in general, but I do think that black women should be more supportive and understanding of their black men if they really want them to do well in life.

One thing I have learned from my mother is that men, no matter how smart they are, need the support and confidence of their wives in order to take the risks necessary for true success. Lots of men are smart and have the potential for success but young men especially lack the confidence to always pursue every dream and every angle. It is a loving and supportive women who many times encourages her man to stand up and be strong and can make the difference between a mediocre career and a successful career or entrepreneurial endeavor for their men.

If my mother had not shown complete confidence in my father's ability to make good choices for our family, they would not have moved from Italy to the US for his career and I would likely not be speaking English nearly as well as I do now nor would I have a faint southern draw mixed in with my obvious Italian accent.

Black men in particular already start off their lives behind others because of what slavery, then socialized bigotry, then the welfare state each did to destroy the African American family unit. When a black man succeeds in America, it means so much more than when a white man does. Black men must be smarter and bolder to achieve the same level of success as a white guy because he works twice as hard for the same level of achievement.

The biggest difference I see in white girls vs. black girls is that white girls have no interest in telling their black boyfriends what to do or how to do it. White girls just enjoy their company and are more about the relationship and not the guys career. Black girls seem to be more controlling and more demanding of their men. I think that they want their men to do well but they put too much pressure on them which can sometimes make them withdraw out of fear of failure.

Let us honor our black men and show them that we have their backs. White and Black women both should try harder to support their hard working and intelligent black men and support their decisions and their initiatives and entrepreneurial endeavors whether we agree with their professional choices or not. If black or white women want successful black husbands and fathers, turn them loose, support them and let them soar.

Just my opinion

Originally Posted by Mustang Alley

Surprised at the different angle this thread has taken. The OP's original post had strong undertones of that blk man superiority BS (that certain non blk members over dose on) along with praising white women by putting down blk women.

Kinda makes one ponder?????