Offers and demands? When you see yourself as the prize you don't see it that way so it's all subjective, I know some guys will bend and jump thru hoops to get some sex from couples acting as gatekeepers (act this way, dress this way, be this body type, must be well hung, etc. Ppl have their preferences of course but will throw others under the bus while expecting certain things) but that's on those black single males. It'll end up being a stalemate in most convos if the vibe and respect level is off on both sides so I usually decline. It overwhelmingly doesn't work out: they want you to act a certain way, they wanna see your dick, they don't want YOU to be pushy but It's okay for them to be and other issues. From certain ppls perspective usually the single guy = bad guy in those encounters. Add black to it and well....
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