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Originally Posted by IRfan1970
There are also instances where it's a surprise for the gf/wife... so the comment about not being able to speak to the Mrs. is automatic fake & the such is not always the case.
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True about it being a possible surprise, but I know from years of experience that totally surprising the wife with the gift of BBC is:
Number 1 - not the usual approach;
Number 2 - not advisable if she's never done it before, and
Number 3 - usually NOT legit or successful because it's usually some guy who's just dreaming and wasting somebody else's time . . . because he can't convince his wife/gf to just come right out and do it (maybe wouldn't even dare bring it up) . . . or is just another homosexual wanting to lead somebody along down some path that leads to nowhere . . . except for everybody beatin' off
I'm not saying there aren't couples where setting up a surprise for the wife/gf doesn't happen. What I'm saying is that playing the odds, you're much more likely than not to be dealing with a fake. After all, that's mostly what's out there anyway in the first place . . . fakes and flakes . . . and nothing's changed!
The types of situations where I have seen the "surprise" work best is when all the parties involved actually already know each other and/or are known to each other as swingers. Maybe they've been together before or have attended parties together, etc. Or, maybe you have a group of people who have established good reputations for themselves in the lifestyle and who are known for putting on surprise gang bangs or something. And then, say the husband decides to surprise the wife on her birthday with some known BBC that will be down with the scene.
This is in opposition to trying to set up a surprise involving total strangers with no "industry rep" at all. Not that it never happens, but it usually doesn't work out. And FAKES and FLAKES being the main actors in the background is an overwhelming reason why. People who already know and trust each other or who have established their reputations have gotten around that barrier. So, surprising the wife/gf under those circumstances can work out much, much better. But when you're still TOTAL strangers to each other . . . you know absolutely nothing about one another . . . that barrier is some kind of HIGH and normally doesn't get crossed. Reason number one being that fakes and flakes are at the heart of it all.
I personally would not attempt to meet with any couple where the husband or boyfriend claims he wants to "surprise" his wife or girlfriend. For one thing, that's just not the way I want to start things off. I want some kind of contact with a woman before I want/decide to fuck her. I need something. I'm a man so I don't need much LOL! But something. And second, I've just had too many experiences where I know the other guy is full of shit, and I'm not about to let him waste my time. These are the same motherfuckers who want you to "tell me what you would do to my wife" or "seduce my wife" . . . these kinds of requests and "I want to surprise my wife" can often be found together in so many stinky clods of BULLSHIT
Now, due to my "negative outlook" on this could I potentially be missing out on somebody who is in fact legit and on the up-and-up? Yes, I could be. Absolutely. But in this game where there are SO MANY fakes and flakes, I'd rather play the odds and play the game in the way that suits me best personally. That involves placing a premium on not letting other people waste my time. And so, for me that includes practicing the "Holiday Inn" approach to swinging . . . NO SURPRISES (for those of you who don't know/remember, "no surprises" was Holiday Inn's main marketing slogan many years ago). And besides, some of the new/remodeled Holiday Inn Hotels have some nice rooms for having interracial sex in
I don't know about other kinds of sex, but they're good for interracial fucking
