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Originally Posted by Mariposa Blanca
My hubby isn't really involved in my "playtimes". I have his blessing, but he's ambivalent about watching or being involved. He always knows where I am and who I'm with, which I like.
I currently have what seems to be a good thing going with a local guy here. I do consider him a friend, and we exchange regular emails that cover many different topics. I am not the type to want one-night stands with a guy I pick up that night in a bar, never to see again after. I would prefer to at least stay friends, and cordial, even if the "playtime" side of things ends.
A guy is never just a BBC to me. I have to be attracted to him as a whole before anything happens.
One last thing: I love my husband and am not looking to replace him or downgrade him in my life. I will never lead the guy in to think that whatever we have will be something permanent / committed. And I expect openness and honesty from him in return.
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My ex and I had the same deal. I saw her with him but that was not a prerequisite. We enjoyed expanding our sex lives and we knew where each other was all of the time. If she happened to find someone when I was out of town, she would call me and let me know where she was and who she was with. It was a deal that we made. We were just helping each other enjoy life a little more!