Take it slow guys.
Trust me, I've waited a very long time to finally pursuade my wife in to this. It's tough, especially if she's been raised to think being with a black man is "wrong" as mine was.
My advise is to take it slow, don't force her, that may just piss her off and make her think that you just want to use this as an opportunity to cheat on her. Oh yeah, mine thought that to!
Let her know that your motive is pure enjoyment in watching another man especially a "Black" man (it's so "taboo") seek out and sexually desire your wife. Explain to her that watching him seduce and please her would be such an erotic experience for you and her at so many levels.
It helps to have her get acquainted with black men who she would find not just physically attractive, but intellectually attractive as well. This worked for us, my wife wrote about it in our blog, check them out.
I'm understanding and very sympathetic to the cause, send me a message if you need more support.
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