My best friend is the one who got me interested in black men! If I don't share the details with her, she comes and asks 50 questions and badgers me until I tell her everything! LOL! She, of course, reciprocates when she gets lucky. We often give orgasm counts as a way to rate men..."Tony is a 2 right now, and Deke is a 5!" Don't think we don't talk about it - good or bad. "Hubby is a minus one" (That means he came and I didn't!) LOL!