Committed?
How committed is your relationship if you feel you have to trick your wife/gf into playing with another man? You run more risk of it all blowing up on you doing it this way than just manning up and having that awkward conversation with her about your supposed needs and desires pursuant to this. It all works out great in fantasies, but real life is usually different in this regard. If you are really that close, or want to be, you need to lay the cards out, as does she. If you cannot or you end up incopatible as a result, then you are both wasting time. A woman will generally appreciate honesty and confidence more than anything else in a man. This proposed approach demonstrates lack of both of them. But if you do drop it all on her, there might be shock initially. Give it time to sink in and don't push things. Hotwifing is not the sort of proposal most women will eagerly jump right into with both feet. Good luck.
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