Interesting responses... I didn't expect people to be so 'correct' about it.
It's true that it's a fantasy, as in I haven't done it yet. But it's not a fantasy in a sense that this is definitely something on my to do list, when I find the right guy.
It's good that you point out about her potentially being very upset over it. I will make sure that she knows that I don't see affairs as big of a deal as some other people. I understand that we are not by nature monogamous species and cheating can suddenly happen to anyone (not going into psychological advantages of it). I will make sure she knows that cheating is only if she does it behind my back, and as long as she comes clean, I will not be mad (rather than fucking some guy for years, while I pay for her education, for example).
Secondly, I do not believe this is 'deception'. I am simply offering an opportunity, that most likely will present itself naturally to her anyway. The rest is up to her free will and her inner desires. I am personally open to both possibilities: her cheating, or remaining faithful despite a perfect opportunity. I am actually very curious as to what would happen.
I started this thread to gather experiences of people who might have already done that. I want to see what I might expect and have examples of how to handle. Some warnings are helpful as well (as some people have given).
Anyways, maybe this is another lifestyle then? What would you call this if not 'cuckold'?
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