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Originally Posted by dgorman

It took me over 3 years to convince my wife. I introduced the idea when we having sex so that she started to feel comfortable with the "fantasy". It became apparent that she was becoming more turned on when we talked during sex. I also made sure that she knew I was not interested in having sex with another woman and was purely turned on by the taboo nature of watching. She became more involved with the "dirty talk" and evolved the fantasy towards what she found exciting. I also made sure that we had good sex without the need to talk to appear not to obsessed. After a while I started talking about the fantasy outside the bedroom (usually involving alcohol) and asked her if there were any circumstances where she would actually do anything. This gave me a good idea of her concerns and boundaries which I could work on. Eventually it reached a point where she was confident enough for us to look at how we could arrange it and cover all her worries. The initial experience involved someone she knew fancied her (unfortunately not black) and had no contact with work collegues or friends. I persueded her to make a pass at him to see how he would react. She arranged to go out for a drink with him and I waited at home with a major hardon wondering what happened. When she got home she was the horniest I have ever seen her and knew things must have gone well. She confessed to making out with hime in his car where he had fingered her pussy and she had wanked him off !!!
Things escalated quickly when I arranged to be away for the night while she invited the guy around. I installed a hidden camera in the spare room in an alarm sensor to record what happened. By this stage my wife was getting turned on by the idea of me seeing her lose her inhibitions. The results were amazing as I returned to find a well fucked wife and a video that I wanked myself stupid over.
It took a further six months to persuade and arrange the meeting with a big black guy. We joined adult friend finder and put up an honest profile as well as take our time looking at possible guys. It came down to finding someone who had the right attitude and trustworthy as much as having a big cock (this was a major feature of the fantasy). Eventually we found a guy from the midlands who fit all of our criteria and more importantly had a lot of positive comments from other couples and women on the site. We exhcanged e-mails for a short time and eventually agreed to meet. We met at a hotel in birmingham where we had a drink in the public bar first. The guy turned out to be genuine and good fun. It didn't take long before we went back up to our room where my 3 years of work paid off. I watched my wife get fucked by an athletic, good looking, assertive black guy with one of the biggest cocks I have ever seen (at least 11 inches and very very thick) Once my wife got used to the sheer size of the guy she lost all her inhibitions. They fucked 4 times during the evening and watched her get taken in every position!!! when he left and I eventually got to fuck her it was the best sex I have ever had. It was worth the wait and we continue to find new partners and variations to keep developing our fantasy. I have watched her fuck 2 guys at the same time and we are working up to a major gangbang in the future. The trick is to realise that your partner needs to be turned on by the idea and you need to find her reservations at every stage and come up with arguments as to why it will not effect your relationship. If they end up loving it as much as you they it can only get even better. Good luck to you all.

Very good advise and thank you!