[Mustang Alley]

Originally Posted by surfkitty

Yes! If you are going to meet someone for real then you should talk on cam. I personally like to Skype.if you're just on the site for fun and not trying to meet anyone you shouldn't have to be verified....just my opinion

I disagree and here's why. Besides not being able to actually meet with you, fakes can harm you in other ways. Yes I said harm. Until it happens to you or someone that's close to you then you're not gonna see a problem with dealing with non verified people. I've been here almost 4 years and I've seen a lot of bs that all had to do with fakes. That's why I and others preach getting cam verified.

There's a few few people that I speak with beyond a hi and bye that haven't been verified. The only reason I speak to them is I watch how they speak/handle themselves. Then in time (usually very quick) they get verified. Never really discuss anything personal. Basically never giving anyone ammo yes I said AMMO. LOL.

FAKES love to

Run scams including blackmail, mental control and abuse, cost you $ by traveling to them (yes I know of men who have flown to meet the woman only to find out it was a fake/set up) they like to gain trust and drain you of info. STALKERS.

Least of the problems is wasting your time.

So like I've said a million times before get verified and only deal with verified members it's the safest way to play!!! That goes for everywhere on the net.