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Originally Posted by Mustang Alley
I disagree and here's why. Besides not being able to actually meet with you, fakes can harm you in other ways. Yes I said harm. Until it happens to you or someone that's close to you then you're not gonna see a problem with dealing with non verified people. I've been here almost 4 years and I've seen a lot of bs that all had to do with fakes. That's why I and others preach getting cam verified.
There's a few few people that I speak with beyond a hi and bye that haven't been verified. The only reason I speak to them is I watch how they speak/handle themselves. Then in time (usually very quick) they get verified. Never really discuss anything personal. Basically never giving anyone ammo yes I said AMMO. LOL.
FAKES love to
Run scams including blackmail, mental control and abuse, cost you $ by traveling to them (yes I know of men who have flown to meet the woman only to find out it was a fake/set up) they like to gain trust and drain you of info. STALKERS.
Least of the problems is wasting your time.
So like I've said a million times before get verified and only deal with verified members it's the safest way to play!!! That goes for everywhere on the net.
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I think I'm with Mustang on this one. We're not just trying to avoid the aggravation at the end of the process; when you try to meet somebody, but they turn out to be fake... What about the time and effort that goes into connecting with somebody in the first place; the whole online get-to-know you process? That can take time, and if you're not sure the person you're exchanging messages with is the real deal -- well that's A LOT of time wasted.